See van der Kolk video: I dubbed it “trauma since the sperm hit the egg” when I realized I had it. Allan Schore calls it “trauma in the first 1000 days, conception to age two.” It used to be called “complex PTSD” (C-PTSD) or “Early Trauma” (ET).

Well at this point, the guy realizes that you really like him, he has you, and he’s no longer worried that he could lose you to another guy.