Men and dating strippers

But yeah - to be honest, I guess when I was younger I kind of got-off on harmful, masochistic relationships.u There's nothing wrong with being a stripper, but it's not really relationship-appropriate. You've got to get over your jealousy if you like the girl. I think it's perfectly reasonable / rational to expect somebody to change their job for the betterment of a relationship.

However, for me my life got crazy enough in a month that I packed my shit in the middle of the night while she was working and left a note in order to avoid potential violence or scenes. Generally it didn't bother me that much, but there were some nights, when I was feeling really down/depressed and just wanted to be with her and I knew she was out, trashed in a sleazy bar taking her clothes off for other guys.

Wasn't the best and I wouldn't really recommend it.

Some of us are thinking, "Girl, when he made you pay for two dates in a row, you should've known," or "That man is a serial stripper dater — what were you thinking?

" Bad boyfriends reveal themselves pretty readily whether they're dating or in the club, and I'm here to connect the dots, so you don't have to waste your time.

There opportunity there's spike in anxiety, depression and fear coupled with gratitude for being the site that answers all your questions about.

This time could feel of the foot to charts again in orange county since.

Man A: I didn't know she was a stripper when we got together but I found out about two weeks after when she decided to be honest with me. I believe I responded that I wouldn't care too much.

I asked her, jokingly, if she was and she didn't say no. I don't remember her next response, but we changed topics fairly quickly and didn't touch it again that night.

I'm not a jealous type, but dating a stripper will bring it out in almost anyone. She shouldn't be expected to change her job just for a guy. She should be able to keep making money, that is important!! I certainly would - if I were serious about the relationship/person.

Honestly - I think if someone really cares about their partner, after a certain amount of time in a relationship, I think they would drop the work to better the relationship.. You have to remember you started dating the girl as a stripper, and you guys only been together for 5 months.