Her labia may be small or large and protruding like a rose bud.
All of this leads to a lot of confusion and misinformation, which can make it daunting for women who are ready to take the plunge. Gerulf Rieger from the Department of Psychology at the University of Essex in England concluded that, unlike men, most women are either gay or bisexual -- but rarely straight.
So if you find yourself wondering what it might be like to get it on with another woman, you’re certainly not alone.
It means proper hygiene for the receiver and proper technique for the giver. First off, you want to stimulate your lover’s clitoris, but also you want to enjoy her labia, her mound, her peritoneum (that space between the clitoris and the anus) and the taste of her.
A discussion on proper hygiene can go all over the place, as what’s required varies with individual women. You may discover your lesbian lover has a clitoris that is much larger or much smaller than your own.
As in, “a little to the left,” “harder” or “keep doing that.” Remember: harder is not always better.
It depends entirely on the person, but don’t assume that hard and fast always wins the race ’til you hear it from your partner. Second, feedback is about your partner, not just about you.
For a taboo thing, lesbian sex can be totally gentle Most of the other sex things that you’ve seen on porn categories, or drink to during a game of I Have Never are intentionally gross, painful or nothing related to sex (‘I have never pissed out of my kitchen window’, anyone?
) Lesbian sex, by comparison, could be as inobtrusive as a light clitoral fingering.
Your lover can have distinct flavors based on what she eats.
Important tip: Stay away from asparagus when you’re planning on having oral sex!